Perspective Rules Everything

To dive in the pool of sadness or to smile through every challenges, it's all in our hands.

Sometimes when I encounter difficulties, the negative friends living in my head would come out and dominate my emotions. They would keep reminding me of all the bad memories from the past.

However, when I take a step back and look at the grand scheme of things, I realized that my experience wasn't that bad cos' I also had really good memories now and then. It was just that I chose to turn a blind eye on it.

Therefore, perspectives determines many things in a person. Sometimes, if you're stuck in an awful situation, try to look at the whole thing in a different perspective. Things may change.

Fears of Giving

Have you ever felt so scared of losing someone you love, someone you care so much about, someone you treasure so dearly?

Love is in the air. It's true. Some people just didn't notice it.

They were too blind to see it because they've gotten used to receiving love. Basically, they took it for granted and didn't even bother to return the favor.

Before they blame their mother for her bad cooking, they should at least try to think about who took so much time and effort to cook for them, who built the warm, loving home for them, who provided them all the best she could offer?

Sometimes, they just oversee what they have. They have indeed received so much more love than they have given.

Don't be scared about giving love. No matter how much you've been hurt in the past, how many people who have betrayed you, how many rejections you've received, just do what you want and express your love, to whether it's your family, friends or partner.

Ask yourself: What if there's no tomorrow? What would you do today?

Seize the moment. What are you still waiting for? 

Seize the Moment, Not Yesterday, Not Tomorrow

Being overly sensitive, I get stressed out for many things that I shouldn't have worried about.

Sometimes, it confuses me and I'd get lost in myself.

Knowing that I'd have done great if I haven't been such a paranoid, regrets fill up my mind everyday.

But then, I took a step back and looked at the grandest scheme of things, I realized that the past and the future shouldn't bother me that much, cos I couldn't neither change the past nor predict the future. The only thing I can work with is the present, which was something I always forgot about.

It's not about what you've done, it's about what you're doing.

It's not about where you've been, it's about where you're going.

Pave Your Own Way

They said

they've already tried it and failed,

and so surely I'd never succeed.

I say

I'm sorry to hear that, and thanks for your concern,

but it's  YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE .


Still,

I'm gonna take the chance and

begin  MY OWN JOURNEY  whatsoever.